Gloria Steinem´s quote: “We are becoming the men we wanted to marry,”

My happy self tells me there is something very right about this quote, my sad self tells me the exact opposite thing.
I am not a feminist like Gloria.I am humanist at the most.
So are we losing them or are we getting better, more complete, sufficient?
I don´t know and I don´t care right now.
Right now I believe in marrying myself before I marry outside of me . How about committing to me? Making plans with me? Loving me? Promising me? Avoiding things I do that bother me?
Wouldn´t this be the foundation to a better relationship with (not me)?